| Location | Basildon |
| Age | 59 years |
| Cause of Death | Other Disease |
| Date of Birth | 04/09/1949 |
| Date of Death | 20/09/2008 |
| Visitors | 2,004 since 22/09/2008 |
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My daddy Barry was a very well loved family man, everyone he met loved him because he was a funny man, he liked to play pranks on people, good ones of course, "haha". He loved life, he has been through alot in his life but he always kept his head held high and never once complained of his pain, he always cared for others more than himself, but that was my dad. My DAD was ONE of EIGHT siblings, he loved his family, his mum GLADYS and his dad RON and brothers and sisters, BRIAN, BILL, FRED, BRENDA, ANGIE, RAY and GARY. He thought alot and cared for his IN-LAWS too, JAN, LYNN, SUE, IAN, JOHN, KATH and COLETTE. He also loved being an uncle to all his NIECES and NEPHEWS, i won`t name them, because he has so many. "ha-ha". He has a very big family. He had 5 kids starting from eldest is MAXINE, CRAIG, MARINA, RICKY and the youngest KATRINA, he thought the world of all his kids and they thought the world of him. He specially loved his wife Mirrie, she was his whole world, they did everthing together but thats how he liked it. Barry most proudest time in his life was when his 7 gran children was born, AMY, TAYLOR, GEORGE, REECE, CALVIN, HENRY and ALEX who shares his birthday with his GRANDAD BARRY, SEP 4TH, seeing all the gran children, it was the high light of his life, he always use to say that he would not live to see his 1st granchild, he was proven wrong, he got to see 7 of his gran children, BARRY was also aware before he died, that he has gran child number eight on the way, who is now born and is called OLIVER, but little did my dad know that his daughter MARINA was also having a baby, so BARRY now has a baby grand-daughter too called ISABELLE, he also has a another grand child on the way form his son CRAIG and his partner CLAIRE, im sure he has met these kids before we have and warning them about the family they are coming into, ha-ha. All these gran children are from his daughter MAXINE and Barry SON-IN-LAW EDWARD, they have four kids. The other four are from Barry son RICKY and Barry DAUGHTER-IN-LAW LISA, and a grandaughter from his daughter MARINA. Barry very much loved his son-in-law EDWARD, as they had alot in common with there FORMULA ONE RACING, everytime they saw each other, they always spoke of the racing, they loved it. Barry also had much love for his daughter-in-law LISA, they always did there CROSSWORDS together and they were forever arguing over the right answer for each question, but thats how they liked it, because they were always laughing and joking with each other. Barry also has a future son-in-law RICHARD, who he really admires and cares for, they were always talking about cars and mechanics and odd jobs around the house, he called RICHARD his handy man. So you could say that life was pretty much perfect for my DAD. He always said he was a lucky man, even being in Ill health, he still said he was lucky. Which we all really loved about our dad. He was a very keen WEST HAM FAN, he loved his football, he loved his sports, RUGBY, TENNIS, SNOOKER, DARTS, OLYMPIC GAMES and MOTOR BIKE RACING, so you could say he loved all sports, but his all time favourite was his GRAND PRIX or FORMULA ONE RACING. Every sunday was booked up, he would steal the remote and hide it, so know one changes the channel, "ha-ha". The funny thing is, that we would watch the racing and my DAD would be asleep in his favourite chair, then he moaned he didn`t get to see all the racing. "ha-ha". We have so many funny things and memories of my DAD that keeps us going as a family, we are always laughing about the good times, but that was my DAD, the Joker. He will be really really missed, it will never be the same now he has gone. We know he would want us to live each day as it comes and to live life to the fullest, like he did. He would always say "don`t take life too seriously" He made that clear to us, when he was diagnosed with PARKINSONS DIMENSION. He will be happy to know that we are trying to live our lives as normal, but i`m sure he understands that sometimes it`s just not that easy to go on at times, but we are trying our best. We love you so much, you will never be forgotten and you will always and forever remain in our hearts.
Rest In Peace now Daddy!
LOVE YOU
HEY OLD GIT
Hey Pops
It been 3 years since you departed this life to go onto a better life, where you are happy and pain free, and cos u also now have Mum with you, if you could do me a favour and kick her arse for me, cos she left me, and i werent ready for it, i know its not something your suppose to be ready for, but she gave us no warning, and it wasnt nice for me to find her, because its an image i cannot get out of my head, but i know its apart of life, and i have to accept it and try to move forward, but i cant put into words how much this all hurts, it hurts like crazy, and i find it very hard to find a reason to get up in the mornings, because you were both my Rock, and living life without you both, just doesnt seem like a life worth living. but im gonna try my very best not to give up, because thats not how you both raised us, u raised us to know that no matter how difficult life gets, face it head on, and always look on the brightside of life, because we all have a purpose, i just dont know what mine is yet, and im sure i will know one day, just right now, life is difficult, and hard to accept ur both not in it, just doesnt seem right, but im happy you have Mum with you now, and i really hope your both constantly smiling and enjoying your time together.
I LOVE YOU SOOOO MUCH AND I MISS YOU EVERYDAY.
love your baby daughter Katrina
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You've always had a special place,
deep within my heart.
Forever there it will remain,
whether we're near or far apart.
You've always been a favourite,
to everyone you know.
You've always made me happy,
when I was feeling low.
The kind advice you gave to me,
will never be replaced.
Nothing else can ever compare,
when I see a smile upon your face.
I want you to know I love you,
and you mean the world to me.
You're the star I'll always wish upon,
the light I'll always see.
you traded in your west ham shirt
for a pair of white wings.
MISS YA DAD : ( I dont care what anyone says ITS NOT GETTING ANY EASIER LIVING EVERYDAY WITHOUT YOU but i know you are around me which is my only comfort. Till we meet again on the otherside daddy i will miss ya : ( : (
Grandad i miss you its not the same anymore without you When im round nannys i always think that your sitting in the armchair with me sitting on your lap and you singing (all ways look on the bright side)but i know your still there your the bestest grandad anyone could ever have. i just wanted to say that im thinking of you. LOVE AMYXXXXXXX
P.S my best friends baby brother marshall died to day. Hes names marshall haynes if you meet him , tell him that his family miss him very mutch .
Silly Season (Again!!)
Hiya Big Bruvver Baz,
Hope your well up there mate with Dad, Mum and Fred and your all haveing a great time.
Just thought I'd pop by and wish you all a very Happy Christmas and a very alcoholic new year.
Missing you all loads and loads.
Gary C
hello dad,
sorry i'v not been on here,it's just too hard.But just to let u know i didn't forget your birthday i was at your side. Well your grandaughter is doing fine she is lovely i just wish u was here to see her i know you will be proud. But i also wanna say thank u cause if it weren't for u putting in a good word Isabelle might not be here. so thank u. But one question what happenend when u got craig and claire did u do a de-tour Lol. Well i miss u dad and i love u so much and everytime i cry for u i must remember that everytime i cry you'd be telling off so i'll stop for now.
LOVE YOU, YOU OLD GIT
FROM NUMBER TWO DAUGHTER
MARINA
P.S Isabelle say hello grandad
MY DADDY
Hey big man, thought i would come on here and wish u a huge HAPPY 60TH BIRTHDAY, you old git, ha-ha.
missing u loads and i really wish u was here right now, im going through abit of a rough time and i need ur advice like always, ha-ha, the funny thing is pops, i know what u would say 2 me, u would tell me to brush it off, pick urself up and just face life head on, dont let the bad things in life drag u down, but unfortantly dad, thats what love does 2 you, ha-ha, no doubt u been watching whats going on, and u would prob kick my bum, but thats y i need ya here right now, cos i need that kick up my bum, ha-ha. I dont wanna feel like this anymore, i wanna be happy and i wanna move on, but as u know dad, its just not that easy, but with your blood in me, im sure i will get there one day and thats what keeps me going, knowing i have my daddy the old git watching over me all the time, HA-HA. i always miss you and i will always love you, unfortantly thats my part as your baby daughter, ha-ha. anyway dad, keep watching over me, cos thats a huge comfort knowing i have u on my side along the way, hope all is going well up there big man, LOVE YOU 4EVA AND ALWAYS
LOVE YOUR BABY DAUGHTER
KATRINA
MY GRANDAD BARRY
hello grandad,
Happy 60th Birthday,
I hope they are giving you a birthday party in heaven, with lots and balloons and birthday cake, and i thought i would tell you that you have a new grandson OLIVER and a new grandaughter ISABELLE, and well miss you very much and you are always on our minds and we will never forget you,
I got you a birthday present that will go on your grave, and i hope you like it, time to go now, but will catch up with you soon, and have a good birthday,
LOVE YOU LOTS
AMY (your grandaugter) + GEORGE (your grandson)
Hiya Baz
Well mate, it's my first birthday without you and I can't tell you how that feels. I know your wishing me a happy birthday, though and I suppose that will have to do.
I hope your OK up there with Dad, Mum and Fred and I hope your all having a drink for me today. Forget the crossword, switch off the F1, put your grandkids down and have a drink, will ya!!!
I know you can all see Dad & Mums grave and I know your all having a go at me for tidying it up and planting some flowers but it's something I've wanted to do for ages and it will allow me to get some nice photos.
With you gone for 8 months, Fred gone for 11 months, Mum gone for 11 years and Dad gone for 20 years it could be very easy to be depressed but I'm not - I bless the days and times I spent with each of you and I'll never forget.
I don't visit often but you know your always there in my thoughts.
Enjoy your drinks and have a great day.
See ya later Big Bruvver Baz,
Gary C
Thinking of you always
God saw you getting tired and a cure was not to be,
So he put his arms around you and whispered come with me,
With tearful eyes i watched you and saw you pass away,
Although i loved you dearly i couldn't make you stay,
A golden heart stopped beating hard working hands at rest,
God broke my heart to prove to me he only takes the best,
It broke my heart to lose you Bruv but you didn't go alone,
Part of me went with you the day God called you home,
A million times i've thought of you a million tears i've cried,
If loving could of saved you you'd still be by my side,
God please come and comfort me for i will always weep,
For the Brother i love so deeply but i just couldn't keep
Hope your ok hon love you lots xxxxxx
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